Planting In Our Children

A question I have heard repeatedly is: Why only gives pear tree apple pear and apple and one woman gives birth to both girl and boy?

In the Bible describes as the first man created Adam, because it comes from the "Adam" from the earth. I could not explain how animals, plants or simply explains that man comes from the earth and He breathed his breath Why would God that I knew that information? Why details the creation of man?

We know that the land grows as you sow, if you plant a fruit tree, fruit will grow if planted flowers, that grow. In both cases, of course, if we cultivate them and care that will happen at its best.

With the human being happens like that, if the burden of chromosomes is XX or XY be a girl or a boy. The inheritance and sex determination in humans is due to chromosomes, there are 23 pairs of human chromosomes, the sex chromosomes are so one of them alone. In humans there are two: X and Y. When the unborn baby joins XX chromosomes corresponding female, born a girl, and the combination of chromosomes are XY males, then born a boy. But rather than placing the baby's sex, we have another responsibility, ability and potential and is more conscious, more variable, and is broader than whether "planted" in our children love, limits, values, self esteem, a good environment family, good education, balanced nutrition and healthy, successful adults will be doing future, happy, able to face life with objectivity, love, respect and principles and teach themselves to their own children and "seed" around the best Thus, by example and attitude towards others and towards life.

"Children who are allowed to grow as a bush, they have no chance to produce flowers of wit", children need to cash them forming, teaching them, loving them, because: "Much love never does wrong for the child, which is in bad when we replace these (gifts) for presence. " Furthermore, "When you educate your child also educate your grandson" (The Talmud).

We have in us "adama - earth," a physical part, but also a part of God God Himself - "His breath-soul" - so we have the possibility of transcending the merely physical, with the ability to unite heaven and earth through our actions, our actions and permeate the example to our children and all those around us.

Many families make real sacrifices for their children to study at top universities in the world, but that's just part of their training. It is useless to be the best doctor in the hospital, if I am able to operate patients without, or leave them to operate and leave them to drift because the poor can not in my budget and just try or operator to make more money. Or the engineer who puts people at risk by making a building that does not comply with all guidelines and regulations to save a few million. They may be the best people and be successful, but if it is not accompanied by a full and honorable formation of moral values, we can not say that successfully educate children. All training must be accompanied by moral guidelines and values ​​so important why living in households where the daily lives, the joys and challenges, sharing, respect, love, help, help, get in the place of another, ... ... the example.

Educating our children is to give them the tools so that when they grow up, they are able to Led their own lives. When they know cope, act, face challenges and learn from their failures support one another, we know that to make his way and achieve their own goals and be useful to their community. That is why education goes beyond the simple statement, "The mediocre teacher speaks. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires." (William Ward) and that it is up to the parents as well as teachers.

"The education system should pay more attention, in fact, the primary focus on character development, with emphasis on ethical and moral values." (Rebbe Menachem M. Schneerson)

We are here in this world to make a difference and bring something unique and new, to do, but also better people. "Education is not to race to live, but temper the soul to the difficulties of life." (Pythagoras)

Educating our children is to be aware of their training, not only academically, but also moral, they learn by watching, so when bad behavior occurs we must analyze it and ask why? Education is what remains with us after having studied, grown and become an adult, is learning that allows me to pursue a career or profession, but most of the values ​​was incorporated through the lives and those are the foundations of a full life, knowing how I will behave, with values, I can choose the profession you choose or how many you want, based on mutual respect, sensitivity to others, to give one's best.

God wants you to know to raise our children in the way of actual values ​​with love, patience, wisdom so that our children are people of integrity, with training, education, dreams, and above all moral, honorable, upright, objectives able to help build a better world.

Nelly Klein kaufman

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