The most used to manipulate our partners

In the affective domain should I have my individuality to be my friends, obviously they do not affect or threaten the emotional relationship with my partner. Many couples live not knowing permanent conflict to respect the limits of individuality in the affective domain.

We all need someone other than your partner with whom to share some facts of our life, important or not. No human being fully meet the needs of others.

The couple often needed self-examination and self-criticism to know what areas are embracing the other, and how things are not respecting the right to autonomy or be identified.

It should delineate the limits within which each can move. It is important to know when and how I can make decisions that will not harm the harmony of the couple.

In the economic field should clearly demarcate those limits not to take unilateral decisions that may affect the household economy. For example, decisions that involve the proceeds of a month must be in agreement to not create trauma.

Driving home economics requires a lot of maturity to know what priorities there.

In the consumer society we are moving is important to know what decisions are made after a careful analysis in which we must be objective, careful not to get carried away by those "emotional impulse" purchase.

Some people are compulsive shoppers and their purchases end up affecting any budget familiar.Se must establish an order of priorities, according to the needs to be taken within this framework and each may be independent to choose the kind of article, brand, style, etc.., the most appropriate.

Household economic failure is usually due to mishandling of the autonomy of the two believed to have the income they bring home, such as income, you feel with the right to manage as you see fit, forgetting that the Marriage is a society in which everyone has equal rights as a partner.

When you have a healthy self-esteem easily respect the rights of others, leaving our selfishness to think about the feelings and needs of others.

We must always agree to spend or invest the money, the decision will surely be wiser. In this decision, both may exercise their autonomy.

A healthy self-esteem help for money is not spent just "posturing". Low self-esteem may promote the tendency to spend. Their self-esteem depends on the "periphery" and therefore need to "show have."

Money can become the best way to manipulate your partner. When all income is dependent on only one person, it can exercise unrighteous dominion and believe that they have every right to invest or spend the money to your accommodation.

Hence the importance of each self-sufficient, not necessarily dependent on the other. If for any reason, separation, illness, death, become unemployed, the stability of the household staff and should not be a traumatic affect.

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For your peace of mind,

Bernard Silver.