Letter from a friend who asks what is love

What is love? What is true love? A few days ago a friend told me that she loved and would do anything for his "love" is with her and never leave .. I started to think, after many hours of internalized and based on many personal experiences, experience of friends, relatives and experience other people's experience, I came to these conclusions about what is love: First, "To love is to surrender if forgetting." But that surrender is mutual.

Some people do not understand this. Confuse delivery with passion, do not understand that surrender is doing what is best for the other party. Separates true love never studies, separating families, separate goals, separate principles, separate ideals. True love is giving the other party an opportunity to be a better person.

It is giving the other party the opportunity to live in harmony. A person who loves desires to join the family and we never isolate the person who loves his family. True love even at the expense of his own sacrifice always wants the best for the other party, even if it means sacrificing one's love. True love knows no distance. True love is not only sensual love, sexual love, passionate love, but total love, love built.

True love can never allow the destruction of homes, destruction of targets, destruction of principles. True love knows even renunciation. The great loves never have begun destroying anything but building something. True love is thinking about the happiness of another person even at the cost of losing that love.

True love wants the happy person's environment wins a stranger and stop being weird. True love at any time since Adam and Eve to the present century, 21, is thinking about the other person more than yourself. If one thinks only of oneself, that is not love, that is pure selfishness.

Passion is pure selfishness. Destruction is pure selfishness. No one who loves wants to hurt the person you love. Whatever the damage, which destroys, the sink, to put out of everything for the person representing absolute and unselfish love, that's not love. True love requires sacrifice. It requires commitment but does not mean only physical delivery. To love is to help overcome the other.

Help create an environment of love. Among a couple a lot can happen, but whatever happens no relationship ends well when you suffer. The suffering that God Himself by sending His Son Jesus to redeem our sins, giving us a test of true love, love means to reconcile, to bring love, love to grow. True love is sown in the field of sacrifice means sacrifice, but never hurt. Damage chasing people who have been hurt until the end of his days.

The damage is as a stigma. The damage is like a scar on his face you can never erase. And only with forgiveness is lessened but never erased from the face. True love hard and costs a lot. Between a man and a woman, age it is, when they really love is not self-destruct. No explanation is given. Do not take risks. When there is true love .. the desire passes into the background.

True love is a thousand times stronger than passion. A carnal desire ends in minutes. A true love can and should last a lifetime. Life brings many good things and bad, but next to a true love the most frightful storm, the most terrible earthquakes, the most horrific of events, it is protected when there is true love ....